hello pple,m sorry i have been MIA for a while.alot of things have been happening,don't know where to start from but hmmmmmm lets see
Uncle came back from london and it was supposed to be alrite n lovey dovey yes?NO.it has been one problem or the other,one fight or another,in short it all started out as a bad hair day n went downhill from there,UNDERSTATEMENT.i cant exactly come out and say this is wat happened or this is wat triggerd it,if it not a fight,its an arguement.if its not an arguement,its a quarrel.even wen we try to tiptoe around each other,it manages to still end up as a DISASTER.
so i started thinking deep within me, tryin to fish out the source of all these unnecessary quarrels,n my God are they unnecessary most times...........
about some three months ago,when our relationship was still fairly new and our love for each other was still strong,normally i stay over at his place for the weekend,to go back home on sunday.so this faaithful monday,a friend of mine(lets call her Rica) calls me up at work,dat she had a misunderstanding with her family and would like to just leave home for a while,n since she didnt have too many friends culd she come over to my office,n she was in tears while talkin to me so i said sure no problem.i was concerned cos i kept on wondering wat possibly could have happened n so i waited for her to get to me.oh when she came in really there was nothing to ask just looking at her,so i let her cry cos she was already in tears on her way in.n she cried n cried n cried,she was cryiing so bad that i had to give some kind of explanation to my colleagues at work.the long and short of it is dat,she had a fight with her younger sister,whom the rest of the family supported.
so she left home in orde to teach them a lesson n not havin where to go,she asked to stay at mines .being the good friend i am,i said sure.never realising i was about to make the worse mistake of my lifewas so busy dat week i almost forgot about going to Uncles house until thursday,so i called him up to tell him i was comin over as usual but not alone.i filled him in on Ricas' story.prior to dat i had mentioned dat i had a friend stayin over at my place so they got talkin via my phone.n becos i was so in love, all i culd talk about was Uncle dis,Uncle dat.He did dis for me,He did dat to me(digging my grave unknowingly).friday came,i went to work,the plan was dat Rica will come in the evening when i was about to close up and from there we'll go over to Uncles place as i wasnt goin to leave her at home all weekend n neither was i going to miss the opportunity of being with my man.so we set off to Uncles place.........................
lets go back a while before dat day.did i mention dat my Uncle is married? well he is n before u call me a husband snatcher n crucify me.lemme give u an insight of how we met.
me at work n uncle comes in to get something,this conversation takes place
uncle:hello,good aftrnoon wuld like to buy some things culd u pls show me wat u ve got?
teebizzy:goodafternoon sir,we ve ........
(n then we finalize d sales)
uncle:thank u
teebizzy:u r welcome
fastforward a little
2wks later
teebizzy:wat happened to ur arm? n r u meant to be driving?(dats me being the mother hen)
uncle walks in in a hand brace
uncle:i had an accident in america
teebizzy:aw sorry,pele,but dat doesnt answer my question.r u meant to b driving?
uncle:welllllll no
teebizzy:then y r u?u dont feel sorry for urself abi......................
n i go on n on n on,meanwhile he is twice my size.lol
so i send him home to go rest his arm cos it was obvious he was in pain.then we xcahnge numbers and email addresses so i culd check up on him.
TO BE CONTINUED........................
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
My Best Friend.
he went away,
i still remember it like yesterday, when i woke up real early cos i had a party to attend.and me, being the person i am,once i can't come up with something to wear in my head,then getting an outfit can be a days' battle.so i got up early and started ransacking my wardrobe tryin to match up outfits, there i was when my lil bro(lets call him jnr)came in to tell me that our pumping machine had packed up,damn,dat meant having to go fetch water from our neighbours house opposite.double damn cos that was d venue of the party.oh of all things to happen?but we had no choice,momsie was waiting n i still vent come up wit an outfit.so off we went to fetch water.met up wit my friends,Taiwo,Kehinde & Idowu(porpularly known as aro meta,cos tho they were sisters,they always walked together like all the time.n the celebrant was actually Idowu).fetching water actually became fun as we were alot,n there was much to gist n gossip about..thru wit my chores for the day,i went back to searching for wat to wear n i had heard from Kehinde,dat Idowu was going to wear a really short outfit.trust me not to be outdone(excuse my french) by anyone including the celebrant,i finally decided on a short brown spaghetti dress n platforms,dis was like 8yrs ago,was so excited i culdnt keep still.so off to gist and gossip wit Him.now hes my best friend in d whole wide world,whos is always there for me.
fianally went for the party,had a great time,ate,ate,n ate some more.then i got back home in d evening to give my bestfriend updated gist(lol).then went to my room to change,whilst changin i heard commotion outside n i ran to c wat culd ve append,my bestfriend was coughing up blood,everyone was crying n talkin at d same time.i was dumbfounded cos i culdnt imagine wat culd ve appened btw d time i left him to go change,then he was rushed to d hospital,n i became scared so scared i culdnt go to the hospital instead i stayed at home and cried.the next morning i went to see my friend jumi n told her to escort me to the hospital.i also told her dat i was scared cos i believed dat my bestfriend was going to die,she asked me why i thot so,n i told her i just knew(it was a gut feeling dat i had,n its never wrong).so together we went to the hospital only to be told that he had been transferred to another one.i was gettin anxious now.we rushed to the other hospital dis time we were told dat we culdnt see him cos he was with the doctor(a cold feeling went through my body)n i started crying and wouldnt stop.Jumi took me home n tried to console me but i was inconsolable till i fell asleep.
the next day i was determined to be allowed to see him whether i was permitted to or not.i wasnt going to leave the hospital witout seeing for myself that he was alrite.so i got dressed, tidied up the house n was about to leave when i saw a car fully of people drive in.i wasnt ready to be sociable,so i locked up n waited by the gate,firstly to see who they were n wat their mission was,n secondly,to inform them i was leavin the house(rude tho it might seem but i couldnt be bothered with small talk).then out of the car came my mum,followed by some aunties like this i hadnt seen in a while,then some other women.i went striaght to my mum to ask her how my bestfriend was and she said he was fine ,dat he had again been transferred to another hospital,good right?but why where they crying? then it hit me right between my eyes oh i cried,i cried like it was goin out of fashion,i cried like i had never before in my whole life,i cried for the stories i wuldnt be able to tell him,i cried for the advice he wont be able to give me,i cried for the shoulder i knew i could always lean on,i cried for all the things i had planned to do to make him proud of me as i was of him,i cried for my mother,i cried for my brothers and sister,especially my sister,becos she wasnt going to know this great man who fathered her,she wasnt going to know wat i did about this great man,i cried for my unborn children who wouldnt get to know the wonderful person their grandfather was,i cried because trully i didnt want to live again, my bestfriend whom has been there with me right from birth,
my bestfriend who heard me say my first words,
my bestfriend who watched me take my first steps,
my bestfriend who was the first male presence i ever knew in my life,
my bestfriend whom i told evrything to,
my bestfriend whom i could laugh with,
my bestfriend who protected me from the cane of my mom,
my bestfriend who was my knight in shining armour,
my bestfriend whom i adored,
my bestfriend was gone
gone for good and never to return.
i miss u daddy
after all these years it still hurts.
REST IN PEACE
i still remember it like yesterday, when i woke up real early cos i had a party to attend.and me, being the person i am,once i can't come up with something to wear in my head,then getting an outfit can be a days' battle.so i got up early and started ransacking my wardrobe tryin to match up outfits, there i was when my lil bro(lets call him jnr)came in to tell me that our pumping machine had packed up,damn,dat meant having to go fetch water from our neighbours house opposite.double damn cos that was d venue of the party.oh of all things to happen?but we had no choice,momsie was waiting n i still vent come up wit an outfit.so off we went to fetch water.met up wit my friends,Taiwo,Kehinde & Idowu(porpularly known as aro meta,cos tho they were sisters,they always walked together like all the time.n the celebrant was actually Idowu).fetching water actually became fun as we were alot,n there was much to gist n gossip about..thru wit my chores for the day,i went back to searching for wat to wear n i had heard from Kehinde,dat Idowu was going to wear a really short outfit.trust me not to be outdone(excuse my french) by anyone including the celebrant,i finally decided on a short brown spaghetti dress n platforms,dis was like 8yrs ago,was so excited i culdnt keep still.so off to gist and gossip wit Him.now hes my best friend in d whole wide world,whos is always there for me.
fianally went for the party,had a great time,ate,ate,n ate some more.then i got back home in d evening to give my bestfriend updated gist(lol).then went to my room to change,whilst changin i heard commotion outside n i ran to c wat culd ve append,my bestfriend was coughing up blood,everyone was crying n talkin at d same time.i was dumbfounded cos i culdnt imagine wat culd ve appened btw d time i left him to go change,then he was rushed to d hospital,n i became scared so scared i culdnt go to the hospital instead i stayed at home and cried.the next morning i went to see my friend jumi n told her to escort me to the hospital.i also told her dat i was scared cos i believed dat my bestfriend was going to die,she asked me why i thot so,n i told her i just knew(it was a gut feeling dat i had,n its never wrong).so together we went to the hospital only to be told that he had been transferred to another one.i was gettin anxious now.we rushed to the other hospital dis time we were told dat we culdnt see him cos he was with the doctor(a cold feeling went through my body)n i started crying and wouldnt stop.Jumi took me home n tried to console me but i was inconsolable till i fell asleep.
the next day i was determined to be allowed to see him whether i was permitted to or not.i wasnt going to leave the hospital witout seeing for myself that he was alrite.so i got dressed, tidied up the house n was about to leave when i saw a car fully of people drive in.i wasnt ready to be sociable,so i locked up n waited by the gate,firstly to see who they were n wat their mission was,n secondly,to inform them i was leavin the house(rude tho it might seem but i couldnt be bothered with small talk).then out of the car came my mum,followed by some aunties like this i hadnt seen in a while,then some other women.i went striaght to my mum to ask her how my bestfriend was and she said he was fine ,dat he had again been transferred to another hospital,good right?but why where they crying? then it hit me right between my eyes oh i cried,i cried like it was goin out of fashion,i cried like i had never before in my whole life,i cried for the stories i wuldnt be able to tell him,i cried for the advice he wont be able to give me,i cried for the shoulder i knew i could always lean on,i cried for all the things i had planned to do to make him proud of me as i was of him,i cried for my mother,i cried for my brothers and sister,especially my sister,becos she wasnt going to know this great man who fathered her,she wasnt going to know wat i did about this great man,i cried for my unborn children who wouldnt get to know the wonderful person their grandfather was,i cried because trully i didnt want to live again, my bestfriend whom has been there with me right from birth,
my bestfriend who heard me say my first words,
my bestfriend who watched me take my first steps,
my bestfriend who was the first male presence i ever knew in my life,
my bestfriend whom i told evrything to,
my bestfriend whom i could laugh with,
my bestfriend who protected me from the cane of my mom,
my bestfriend who was my knight in shining armour,
my bestfriend whom i adored,
my bestfriend was gone
gone for good and never to return.
i miss u daddy
after all these years it still hurts.
REST IN PEACE
Happy New Year
hello people,happy new year to u all.i hope u all had a wonderfull hols? well mine was ok..........hmmmmmm,i worked untill the 24th which i thot was unfair but wat culd i do about it?NOTHING.after work on d 24th i hung out wit my Uncle(now my uncle is my boyfriend,dont get me wrong we r nowhere near related except may b in future,but dats wat m gonna call him.)went last minute shoppin then went back to his place as i was goin to spend my xmas wit him.it was fun but for the traffic but we made it back home on time.just generally stayed in-doors all nite n most of christmas morning,but had to go see his parents n mine l8r on.its only right (dont u think?).
my friends from yankee where around n i had lots of fun just hanging out wit them.my uncle travelled so my holiday wasnt xactly complete but i did try to have fun.attended weddings here n there,even started avoiding all this well meaning relations who help calculate your age,by askin ehen,when is your own wedding coming up?or where is your husband? or is that your boyfriend? some are not so subtle wit their hints n they go like(how old are you now,all your mates are gettin married,wat are you waiting for?)lol.who told them that after a girl is through wit her university education marriage comes next?so now no more family functions for me,or if i do go then i'll avoid all those aunties who mean well.
my ass is gettin out of hand,any one wit suggestions on how to reduce your bum shuld pls tell me.its becomin eembarrassing.
i miss my uncle.really i do.but nowadays all we do is argue over mundane stupid issue that arent wat fighting about.i want to believe dat its because i'm missing him so much.i want us to go some place together just the two of us without all the hussle and bussle of work or people we know,to just be by ourselves for awhile.
did u guys see all that traffic over the holiday?mehn it was crazy,i thot as it was xmas n all the roads will be freebut boi,was i mistaken.nobody travelled n more pple came in.lots of shows n parties n all dat stuff to keep one occupied.i guess it was all fun.eko was bubbling.i really enjoyed myself even though i wished it could ve been longer.so now its back to work for me n surprisingly enuff its been quite busy this past one week.especailly in january.its all good.it means more bonus for me i hope.lol.
anyway i gotta run.for now my posts have been raandom but will get more personal as time goes on.u'll ve to bear with me cos i am a little bit scatter brained but wellllll we'll see.
later
my friends from yankee where around n i had lots of fun just hanging out wit them.my uncle travelled so my holiday wasnt xactly complete but i did try to have fun.attended weddings here n there,even started avoiding all this well meaning relations who help calculate your age,by askin ehen,when is your own wedding coming up?or where is your husband? or is that your boyfriend? some are not so subtle wit their hints n they go like(how old are you now,all your mates are gettin married,wat are you waiting for?)lol.who told them that after a girl is through wit her university education marriage comes next?so now no more family functions for me,or if i do go then i'll avoid all those aunties who mean well.
my ass is gettin out of hand,any one wit suggestions on how to reduce your bum shuld pls tell me.its becomin eembarrassing.
i miss my uncle.really i do.but nowadays all we do is argue over mundane stupid issue that arent wat fighting about.i want to believe dat its because i'm missing him so much.i want us to go some place together just the two of us without all the hussle and bussle of work or people we know,to just be by ourselves for awhile.
did u guys see all that traffic over the holiday?mehn it was crazy,i thot as it was xmas n all the roads will be freebut boi,was i mistaken.nobody travelled n more pple came in.lots of shows n parties n all dat stuff to keep one occupied.i guess it was all fun.eko was bubbling.i really enjoyed myself even though i wished it could ve been longer.so now its back to work for me n surprisingly enuff its been quite busy this past one week.especailly in january.its all good.it means more bonus for me i hope.lol.
anyway i gotta run.for now my posts have been raandom but will get more personal as time goes on.u'll ve to bear with me cos i am a little bit scatter brained but wellllll we'll see.
later
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